Why do we twin in limerence? Why do some people feel as if they are us, as if there is no separation between selves? Why is the longing...

Why Dismissive Avoidants Long for Adulation, and are then Repulsed by it. What initially captivates a dismissive avoidant in the insecure...

How can you know if you are in love, or if you are experiencing limerence? Often the rush of adrenalin, excitement and arousal you will...

There is an extraordinary level of mental fortitude needed to fuel limerence. It is an obsession that knows no release when at its most...

Newcomers to AA are introduced to the concept of euphoric recall early in their recovery. There is nothing more dangerous to early...

In Kubler Ross's model of the five stages of grief, she describes bargaining as an attempt to temporarily ward off the inevitable...

No-one else But you, For your eyes The first thing The only thing The everything That makes us two. Why is it so hard to forget the...

For I am weak here Broken hearted And too fragile To allow another in. This is the ringed place The roped off room Where the door is...

Where go you Little rose fox Ballet slipper feet Soft in the pad pad of the night And your quiet yawn That opens all the doors Flips...

I watched my shadow Light and thin. She watched me back, Waiting for her chance. Will she pour her slender legs Into the space that...

If we have not been looked at with enough attunement, how do we heal this? How do we soothe a deep ache for attention and a longing for...

Limerence is a life stealer, a thief of opportunity and expansion. It offers a soporific hit of sexual and romantic intensity while...

Infatuation, obsession and intense attraction does not always mean that a limerent object will be held in high regard. Often the limerent...

If we are eternally looking for the eyes of our mother through the eyes of each new partner, we may twin in order to capture attention. A...

In limerence recovery it is important to assess exactly how you are attempting to seduce your limerent object. One aspect of sexual...

Contempt can become an ever present emotion for the dismissive avoidant. An avoidant may find themselves swimming in the emotional...